The Best Wedding Day Decisions UK Couples Swear By
- onthedaywcs
- Jun 9, 2025
- 3 min read
Updated: 2 days ago
Planning a wedding comes with a lot of pressure. After the confetti has settled, many couples reflect on their choices. Some think about what they would do differently. Others focus on the positive decisions that made a significant impact. These are the choices that made their wedding day smoother, calmer, and more joyful. They helped them feel fully present and connected.
In this post, we share the best wedding day decisions UK couples say helped them feel more supported and more like themselves.
Couples' Top Choices for a Memorable Wedding
Here are the best choices they made on their wedding day.
1. Hiring a Wedding Coordinator / Planner
“It was the best investment; I actually got to enjoy my wedding.”
“I had no idea how much went on behind the scenes, and I didn’t have to deal with any of it!”
Having a professional manage the timeline, vendors, and other details allowed these couples to focus on the main goal: experiencing their special day. This decision ensured everything went smoothly, and they could immerse themselves in the moment.
2. Booking a Videographer
“Photos were lovely, but video brought the emotions flooding back.”
“We barely remembered the ceremony until we watched it back.”
Many couples questioned the cost of a videographer. However, they later called it the most valuable thing they booked. Video captures the sounds, movements, and emotions that might be missed during the day. It's a beautiful way to relive those special moments.
3. Creating a Personalised Playlist or Live Music Moments
“We’re so glad we picked music that meant something to us; it made everything feel like ‘us.’”
From walking down the aisle to the final dance, music shapes many emotional moments at weddings. Choosing a personal playlist or live entertainment brings a sense of uniqueness to the day. This decision helps create cherished memories that resonate with the couple's journey together.
4. Getting Ready Calmly (and Early!)
“We started hair and makeup earlier than we thought, and it saved us from running late.”
“Having a chilled morning with my bridal party was such a special memory.”
Getting ready can be one of the most exciting parts of the day. Couples who began hair and makeup early reported a more relaxed experience. Having a professional beauty team and an ample timeline helps ensure that everything runs smoothly.
5. Doing a First Look or Private Moment Together
“It was our only real moment alone, and it grounded us.”
More couples are leaning into intimate, pre-ceremony time together, especially to ease nerves. This special moment creates an opportunity to connect deeply before the bustle of the day begins.
6. Taking Time to Be With Guests
“We made a point to step away from the schedule and actually be with our guests; it was one of the best parts of the day.”
Several couples said carving out intentional time to connect with loved ones provided memorable grounding moments. Casual hugs and heartfelt chats created a personal and meaningful atmosphere on their special day.
7. Letting Go of Perfection
“The best decision was not trying to control every second.”
“Things went wrong, but we had the best time anyway.”
Perfection can be exhausting. Couples who released their need for control (especially with a trusted coordinator/planner) reported being able to enjoy their day fully. Embracing the unexpected often leads to some of the most cherished memories.
What Will Your Best Wedding Day Decision Be?
Whether you’re in the early stages of planning or just close to your wedding day, it’s never too late to think about how you want your day to feel.
At On The Day, we support couples from 6–12 weeks before the wedding, bringing calm, clarity, and a professional hand to tie everything together.
If you want to avoid last-minute stress and actually enjoy the day you’re planning, we’re here to help.
