Top “Best Wedding Day Decisions We Made” – UK Couples Say:

Planning a wedding comes with a lot of pressure, and after the confetti has settled, many couples look back with insight. Some reflect on what they’d do differently. But just as important are the things they’d absolutely do again, the calm-making choices that changed how their day felt.

In this post, we’re sharing the best wedding day decisions UK couples say helped them feel more present, more supported, and more like themselves.

These are the decisions that made their day smoother, calmer, more joyful, the moments that helped them be fully present and connected.

Here’s what UK couples said were the best choices they made on their wedding day.

1. Hiring a Wedding Coordinator / Planner

“It was the best investment, I actually got to enjoy my wedding.” “I had no idea how much went on behind the scenes, and I didn’t have to deal with any of it!”

Having a professional to manage the timeline, vendors, and all the what-ifs behind the scenes allowed these couples to focus on what actually mattered, the experience of the day.

2. Booking a Videographer

Videographer capturing the moments that can easily be forgotten

“Photos were lovely, but video brought the emotions flooding back.” “We barely remembered the ceremony until we watched it back.”

Many couples say they originally questioned the cost of a videographer, and later called it the most valuable thing they booked. Video captures the sound, movement, and tears you may miss in the moment.

3. Creating a Personalised Playlist or Live Music Moments

“We’re so glad we picked music that meant something to us, it made everything feel like ‘us.’”

From walking down the aisle to the final dance, music often shapes the most emotional moments.

 4. Getting Ready Calmly (and Early!)

“We started hair/makeup earlier than we thought, and it saved us from running late.” “Having a chilled morning with my bridal party was such a special memory.”

This includes having a pro beauty team and a buffer in the timeline.

Every detail fades into the background when you’re fully present in the moment.

5. Doing a First Look or Private Moment Together

“It was our only real moment alone, and it grounded us.”

More couples are leaning into intimate pre-ceremony time, especially for nerves.

6. Taking Time to Be With Guests

“We made a point to step away from the schedule and actually be with our guests, it was one of the best parts of the day.”

Several couples said carving out intentional time to connect with loved ones gave them some of their most memorable, grounding moments. From casual hugs to heartfelt chats, those small windows of connection made the day feel deeply personal and meaningful.

7. Letting Go of Perfection

“The best decision was not trying to control every second.” 

“Things went wrong, but we had the best time anyway.”

Perfection is exhausting. Many couples say the moment they released control (especially with a trusted coordinator/planner), they were finally able to feel present.

What Will Your Best Wedding Day Decision Be?

A quiet moment captured — the couple’s first steps together, side by side.

Whether you’re early in the planning or close to the finish line, it’s not too late to think about how you want your day to feel.

At On The Day, we support couples from 6–12 weeks before the wedding, bringing calm, clarity, and a professional hand to tie everything together.

If you’d like to avoid last-minute stress and actually enjoy the day you’re planning, we’re here to help.